Three "S" Words That Should Characterize Your Relationships

What does it mean to love others?

SUBMIT

Within the body of Christ we are commanded to submit to (or prefer) one another (Ephesians 5). This submission is rooted in the example of Christ, who submitted himself to the Father and in doing so, submitted himself to death (Philippians 2).

Submission is choosing to give my power away for the good of someone else.

SERVE

Jesus said we are to love others the way he loved us. Just before he said that, he demonstrated his love for his disciples by washing their feet, a not-so-pleasant act of service (John 13). We've each been given unique abilities and resources, which when pooled, enable us to function as the body of Christ. Each of us must learn to use what we've been given to serve the body with all our energy (Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 13)

Serving is using my resources for the good of others.

SACRIFICE

Jesus said the greatest love of all is the one who is willing to give up his life for his friend. Within 24 hours, He was doing that very thing (John 15). Paul reminded us that we need to be we willing to give up our own desires and wishes if that will be beneficial to those around us (Romans 15).

Sacrifice is doing what is good for others even if it costs me dearly.